This post is designed for the guidance of Muslim women and a girl who is going to be married should read this article to be a successful and good wife. A god wife always takes very good care of her husband, do respect him, shows her love and affection to him and shares all of her worries and sorrows and always with her husband in tough times.
A wife must do her best to keep her husband pleased with her; the ideal wife combines three merits as her husband pleases with her as he sees her, she obeys him when he gives her a command and she does not go against his wishes regarding property. Here are some guidelines and by following these, a girl can be a successful and good wife.
Avoid angering your husband; Hazrat Muhammad (PBUH) said that Allah does not accept the prayers of that woman or wife who goes to sleep while he husband is angry with her. It is a major sin to deny your husband for sexual relation or pleasure, Hazrat Muhammad (PBUH) said that
if a man calls his wife to bed and she refuses then she will be cursed by Angles till morning. By following the teachings of Islam, Muslim men have no other options to satisfy them except their wives so do respect
their feelings and never deny him and if you do this the very essence of marriage will be destroyed and your husband might be adopt the wrong path.
Never harm your husband in any way and if a wife harms her husband, hoor in paradise says her, don’t harm him, may Allah fight you; he is only staying temporarily with you soon he will come to us in jannat. Without any solid reason, don’t ask your husband for divorce or separation.
Hazrat Muhammad (PBUH) women who demand for divorce without any sound reason in his hadis,” Any woman who asks her husband for divorce without any reason will not smell the fragrance of jannat while its fragrance can be smelled from a long distance.
Use your beauty and overtures of allurement to please your husband and to win his heart, dress up for your husband at home and try to wear the color and style of dress according to his choice, do makeup, use perfume, jewelry and other accessories to attract him towards you.
When your husband comes back to home, welcome him at home with a beautiful appearance, sweet smell, clean home and tasty dinner. Never ignore your husband’s needs and demands; the more a wife takes care of her husband the more she will be loved.